John 12 - A Life Centered on Jesus
John 12 - A Life Centered on Jesus
Jesus' death was approaching, just days away, and yet he is attending a dinner party with friends. Many commentaries mention this gathering would have been celebrating Lazarus' life, which is a bit ironic to me because we were days away from Jesus' death. Nevertheless, Mary is the centerpiece of this story for me this morning.
“Six days before the Passover, Jesus, therefore, came to Bethany, where Lazarus was, whom Jesus had raised from the dead. So they gave a dinner for him there. Martha served, and Lazarus was one of those reclining with him at the table. Mary therefore took a pound of expensive ointment made from pure nard, and anointed the feet of Jesus and wiped his feet with her hair. The house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.” - John 12:1-3 ESV
Here we see again, Martha was serving and tending to the guests, and Mary was focused on Jesus. We have seen this same situation play out before:
“Now as they went on their way, Jesus entered a village. And a woman named Martha welcomed him into her house. And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to his teaching. But Martha was distracted with much serving. And she went up to him and said, “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me.” But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.”” - Luke 10:38-42 ESV
Mary seems to be very centered on Jesus and in tune with the situation around her. This is not to take anything away from Martha; hosting in this culture and tradition was extremely important. Honoring guests was one of the highest responsibilities, so Martha is doing great work. But it seems to me as if Mary is blessed with a gift mix that others didn’t have. Let’s look at a key verse here backward.
Mary therefore took a pound of expensive ointment made from pure nard, and anointed the feet of Jesus and wiped his feet with her hair.
With her hair: what is interesting with this is to wipe and wash Jesus' feet with her hair means that Mary had to take her hair down in public. This was something that no respectable woman in the culture would do. Mary was not concerned about her self or how others saw her, she cared for and loved Jesus so deeply that her hair came down, and she served Jesus.
Wiped Jesus' feet: Anointing someone’s head with oil in this day and age was a sign of honor. However, Mary’s action shows us she was full of humility and humbleness, she bypassed his head and bowed to his feet.
Took a pound of perfume: Finally, Mary’s love for Jesus was so deep, she tapped into her core gift of giving and poured out a year's worth of wage to bless and honor Jesus.
Mary was so centered and focused on Jesus she was not caught up with any worldly struggles or distractions. She was not concerned with what others thought of her, she was full of humility, and she gave extravagantly. Because of all of this, we then read:
The house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.
Mary’s faith in and love for Jesus lead to an action that filled the entire house with a fragrance. A commentary I read this morning expresses this beautifully:
Many fathers of the Church and many scholars have seen a double meaning here. They have taken it to mean that the whole Church was filled with the sweet memory of Mary's action. A lovely deed becomes the possession of the whole world and adds to the beauty of life in general, something which time cannot ever take away.
As we think about Mary and her living our her gifts and loving Jesus as she did, we see how those actions filled the house and blessed others with such a wonderful fragrance. May we see this picture and understand that this is what happens when we are centered and using our gifts to serve and honor Jesus with our lives. Our gifts will extend well beyond our comprehension, and the Kingdom of God will be blessed.
Father, may we keep our eyes on you today and use our gifts in a way that honor and glorify you. Keep us humble, centered, and not worried what others think of us. Draw us to you, and give us the courage and faith to live extravagantly for you like Mary did. Amen.